Wow! Wow! Wow! I never thought those words would come out of my mouth. But it’s true and it was powerful. I lived with a porn star. What? Huh? You did what?!?!?!
My TV show on Lifetime Network literally just aired … and I appeared on Good Day Sacramento to talk about internet safety last Friday. It has been an insane couple of days.
It feels so good to be the guy willing to talk about this stuff, to be the one delivering the tough messages, and telling people that I struggled too. I love being “that guy.
It’s a hard message to share and to be honest, it makes people so uncomfortable that they don’t want to listen.
Well… I’m going to keep talking anyway because I want to lead a revolution of men who shun pixels in favor of reality, men who crave healthy sexuality, and passionately want to lead the best life they can. So I’m not shutting up in fact, my voice is getting louder and louder.
So, about the show …
In case you haven’t heard, I “lived” with an adult actress in a reality show called Living With The Enemy. The purpose of the show was to take people from very different backgrounds, put them together, and see what happens as they challenge each other’s belief systems.
When the opportunity to share my message of healthy sexuality and the impact of porn found me, I jumped on it – despite it being one of the craziest things I have ever done – and that’s saying a lot. Can you imagine telling your parents that you are going on a reality show where you will be living with an adult actress? Yeah, I did that.
I mean, who says “yes” to the question, “would you like to be on a reality show where you are going to live with a porn star?” After much deliberation with wifey Michelle and even more soul searching I said, “YES.” What could go wrong, right?
In fact, nothing went wrong – it was an insanely powerful experience and I learned a lot about myself. During the show I met adult actress Maddy O’Reilly (please don’t google her) and went with her to get her HIV test (performers are required to get one every two weeks), a porn shoot, a casting call and then I brought her back to my world where I shared with her the impact of pornography in a very very very powerful way. And you will see (if you watch it) that I opened her eyes in a big way.
You can watch the show on Amazon (for a $1.99 fee – obviously not my policy, sorry). Here’s a link. I’m going to be blogging, tweeting and podcasting about my experience and lot’s of other cool stuff over the course of the next few weeks. I’m excited to share what I learned about myself.
If you have children, you may want to watch my short 3 minute clip on Good Day Sacramento where I share 3 things every parent needs to do to protect their children online. Here’s a link to it on YouTube.
DO YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS? Write them in the comments below.
Thank you for all your love and support. I’m honored that you’ve invited me on your journey to healthy sexuality AND a great life. If after watching the show, you have any questions, please post them down below. I will answer all of your questions in upcoming videos, blogs, and podcasts.
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